Dealing With Bullies

© COPYRIGHT 2010 BY BRADLEY J. STEINER - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.
Sword and Pen – June 2010 Issue

[Reprinted With Permission]

American Combato
Seattle Combatives


IN a past edition of SWORD & PEN we discussed bullying. We also placed a tribute to a young girl who was the victim of a disgusting collection of human filth at her school and was driven to suicide by this pack of scum, at the head of a past edition. This collection of debris drove the poor girl to take her own life, and we can only hope and pray that every single one of those responsible for adding to that girl’s torment will be struck down by a disease that will see each confined to an iron lung for the rest of a long, long life — a life lived in agony. The degree of suffering — of HELL — that such bullies deserve is without limit, as far as we are concerned.

Recently, we checked the internet for information and resources on the subject of "bullying" — purely out of curiosity. While there is a ton of material on line, we were shocked at what utterly worthless, useless CRAP it amounts to.

So-called "experts" discuss how to deal with bullies and bullying. "Never fight back" is one of the common threads that runs throughout this welter of mindless and incompetent hyperbole. Teachers, counselors, psychologists, ad nauseum, all vomit out their nonsense advice (which is pointlessly elaborate and complex, and irrelevantly beside the point, insofar as those who are actually suffering the bullying are concerned).

What a bully needs to put an end to his behavior is a beating that both cripples him permanently and that terrifies him into a state of trembling, head down, withdrawn and silent passivity. In some instances, when the bullying is life-threatening, there is absolutely nothing inappropriate about a response that ends the bully’s life.

What’s the big deal about this?

No one seems to be able to say it, and fewer still seem willing or able to do it. But how can a rational person deny that this is the right and just reaction to that sort of unconscionable terrorism that children and adults alike are so often victimized by?

Bullies can be stopped by HURTING THEM, and hurting them very, very, very badly. Like all wild animals, bullies do comprehend PAIN immediately, and they do not wish to be hurt, themselves. So . . . the solution to the evil that they foist so gleefully upon those whom they torment is to crush their very souls with the most viciously merciless and ferocious counterattack imaginable; a counterattack that leaves them in literal agony or unconscious, never again to be or to live as whole human beings, for however long their worthless lives may continue.

The bully whose spine is ruined, or whose eyes are blinded, or whose skull is fractured with such severity that he is unable to function normally again due to brain damage will NEVER be able to bully anyone, ever again. Simple. Final. Just. Is this justified? Bullies have done as much — and WORSE — to their victims.

And all bully wannabe’s who may be tempted to indulge their despicable urges at the expense of the innocent will be given much cause for reflection after witnessing scum of their ilk suffer thusly; and the proper treatment of one bully may well, then, be the means by which other potential bullies are prompted to exert the effort necessary to control their desire to torment others.

Bullying occurs between adults no less than it occurs between children. The simple, plain truth is that there is no excuse or justification for refusing to come down mercilessly and savagely upon ANY bullies — young or old.

If you are a parent we’d suggest enrolling your child for judo and boxing instruction. This combined training will give any youngster the physical and psychological tools with which to stand up to any bully and fight back, and WIN. Telling your child that fighting back is no better than being the one who starts a fight is, in our opinion, child abuse. That school administrators and teachers tell this drivel to kids is understandable. These incompetent lice are simply touting the politically correct lie. Let these bureaucratic dummies know, in no uncertain terms that YOUR CHILD HAS YOUR PERMISSION TO DEFEND HIMSELF, and if he is persecuted for doing so, you will sue the school and the morons who participate in pounding the kids with the notion that they ought to submit to being punching bags.

If you are past childhood and are concerned about troublemakers (i.e. adult bullies) who might torment you, then get started in a good combatives training program. Enroll with us, or with some other qualified professional, and make up your mind that anyone who intends you harm will pay a terrible price if he raises a hand against you. No one deserves to be someone else’s victim; however only the individual himself can decide — finally — that he will not accept victimization.

The war against the bully begins with INDIGNATION and WRATH. It is our fervent hope that, should bullying come to you, the matter ends with your application, via sound physical techniques that have been well-directed by your explosive indignation and wrath and that see the bully neutralized, and unable to ply his trade of terror ever again.